Those of us, and the author includes
herself in this, who have been repeatedly hurt by addicts often find it
difficult to forgive them. However, it will help you to understand something
about the psychological pain that they are going through. Note: Even though
this about understands their pain, there is nothing you can do to help them
except to protect yourself and your personal boundaries from them. In no way is
this article a solution to helping addicts. That is a problem which can only be
fixed by them, and only they can start, continue, and finish helping
themselves.
When you suffer from low emotional
intelligence, you are not just incompetent in many parts of your life and
relationships. You still have full mental capacity and ability to think. You
are still able to dream and think about all of the goals which you someday hope
to achieve. You are aware that you can mentally and physically accomplish all
of your goals.
There is a glass wall between what you
can do and what you are technically capable of doing. You are not fully grown
up on the inside, so you cannot handle the burden of responsibility of the
lifestyle of someone who is your age. If you are emotionally twelve years old
on the inside, you will not be able to emotionally handle the responsibilities
of an eighteen year old, and so on. As you grow older, and the burdens of your
age increase against your internal age, you’re suffering and misery increases.
You know that something is wrong, and that something is holding you back, but
you simply cannot figure out what to do about the problem.
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This article has been taken from http://cmm.com.au/articles/?p=3037